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Love and relationships

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For you and the other person – in love, in the family, at work.

Love Oracle «Where does my relationship stand, and what can I do for it?» 4 cards · easy Relationship Spread «Where does my relationship with … stand?» 7 cards · easy Partner Spread «Where do we stand with each other?» 6 cards · easy Lemniscate «What connects us – and what pulls in different directions?» 8 cards · medium Love’s Blessing «What is my relationship about?» 9 cards · advanced
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Love Oracle

4 cards · easy

«Where does my relationship stand, and what can I do for it?»

  1. 1The theme of your relationship right now.
  2. 2What moves you inside.
  3. 3How the other person feels about you.
  4. 4Advice for you.

Position 2 often shows a force that runs deeper than your conscious thoughts. Position 3 shows the other person’s attitude toward you. The advice in position 4 is meant for you – it shows what you can give next.

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Relationship Spread

7 cards · easy

«Where does my relationship with … stand?»

  1. 1The theme currently shaping your relationship.
  2. 7·6·5Your side: what you think (top), what you carry in your heart (middle), how you show yourself (bottom).
  3. 2·3·4The other person’s side on the same three levels.

First read the theme in the middle, then your pillar and then the other person’s. Compare the levels: Where do you meet, where are you still reaching for each other? Finally the movement: Who is moving toward whom right now? This spread works for any relationship – love, family, work.

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Partner Spread

6 cards · easy

«Where do we stand with each other?»

  1. 1a·1bThis is how I see you.
  2. 2a·2bThis is how I see myself.
  3. 3a·3bThis is how I see us.

A spread for two: you take turns drawing three cards each. Turn them over one after the other and tell each other what you see – the cards are a lovely occasion for an open conversation. Finally, each of you sums up your own three cards, and together you sum up all six.

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Lemniscate

8 cards · medium

«What connects us – and what pulls in different directions?»

  1. 1·5Where you are furthest apart.
  2. 3·7What connects you – the place where reconciliation begins.
  3. 2·6What each side consciously wants.
  4. 4·8What drives each side from within.

The cards are laid out like the symbol of infinity. The right loop belongs to you, the left one to the other person – or, for an inner conflict: right is the conscious, left the unconscious. Begin in the middle with 3 and 7, where your common ground lies. The forces in 4 and 8 often act more strongly than the intentions in 2 and 6.

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Love’s Blessing

9 cards · advanced

«What is my relationship about?»

  1. 1The connecting force between you.
  2. 2·3How you and how the other person see the relationship.
  3. 4·5What each of you wishes for or worries about.
  4. 6·7Advice for you and advice for the other person.
  5. 8What you are hatching together.
  6. 9The blessing – it stays face down until the end.

Read your side, then the other person’s, then the force of the connection (1), the advice and what you share. Finally, turn over card 9: If it is a Major Arcana card, a blessing rests on your relationship and casts everything in a brighter light. A Minor Arcana card goes back face down – then the other eight cards speak for themselves.

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